One day in june, I was sitting in the waiting room at the vet with my dog Ash. To my left, there was a woman with her three year old son. After about 30 minutes or so, the little boy began talking to me. As it turned out, this woman is a photographer! I told her I was a photographer just starting out and asked her how one should go about finding a job as an assistant. (Side note: normally I am shy and socially awkward… I usually keep to myself in waiting rooms. I blame (and thank) this serendipitous encounter on the kid. Who knows if I would have talked to this woman had her child not been there?) Her reply? It was something along the lines of, “I have a wedding in July. Would you like to come and be a second camera?” SERIOUSLY?!
Ok. So. As you can imagine… I was absolutely stoked! I have been into photography for about a year now, teaching myself, but it was time to move on and learn from a professional. I can only teach myself so much. Anyways, I was so excited and anxious that I practiced non-stop pretty much up until the day of the wedding. I even bought a used Canon flash. The flash, however, turned out to be my biggest challenge of the whole event. Good thing I didn’t really need it the first half of the wedding!
This woman, by the way, has a name… KRISTEN WADE. She’s been photographing weddings and babies, etc. for about three years or so now. She looked at my portfolio (this blog and my facebook page… I probably need to make a real website lol) and decided to trust me with the groom and groomsmen shots. I was actually kind of freaking out about this, but I felt fairly confident that I could do it.
The ceremony took place on a bridge, where the groom had proposed. The reception was next door at JCT Kitchen and Bar in Atlanta, Georgia. This spot was gorgeous because the bridge had a perfect view of the Atlanta skyline and railroad tracks ran beneath it. Occasionally, a train would pass by. JCT Kitchen has an incredibly hip vibe to it. Downstairs, there is a restaurant with an outdoor courtyard/zen garden (with PEACE rocks!) Upstairs, is a separate bar (but still a part of JCT) and where we were at.Β This wedding was the perfect wedding to start my career with. It was a second marriage wedding, so I knew it was most likely going to be a small, intimate event.Β EXCEPT, that it was blazing hot.
Kristen had warned me that the groom might not be into the photographs. I knew that it would be hot, he would be in a suit, it would be his second marriage and that he would want to get back into the AC as soon as possible. Therefore, I had already picked out a shady spot on a bench prior to the groom’s arrival. When he got there, he told me he did not want to be dragged around in the hot sun for an hour. LOL! I told him I completely understood and that I didn’t want to stand in the heat for that long either. I knew I had to be quick. I literally shot one of the groom and groomsmen and a couple more of the groom by himself. He was thrilled when I told him I was done. The reason I didn’t linger and obsess over these images was because I knew that, if these images didn’t turn out great, there would be one more opportunity after the ceremony. However, I think they turned out fabulously for my first groom/groomsmen portrait shot EVER. Phew.
The ceremony was probably the sweetest ceremony I’ve ever witnessed. A good friend married the two on the bridge with the bride and groom in the center. (FYI, it is a small world out there, folks. The bride’s son went to the same high school as me. He was a year younger but dated one of my friends. Pretty crazy!) Their children surrounded them and linked arms with each other. I almost got choked up watching! My duty for this part was to use my zoom lens and get shots from far away, while Kristen (the main shooter) photographed up-close on the bridge. The only problem with this was they turned the opposite way we thought they would be facing. In other words, I didn’t have a clear view of anything or anyone. I managed to get one shot, but Kristen’s turned out so much better. Which, by the way, is why I believe one should always have a second shooter with them at a wedding; too much can go wrong and too many moments can be easily missed. It’s quite stressful, actually; until, the group portraits are over.
Overall, I thoroughly enjoyed myself. Wedding = permission to people watch and document the event freely. I didn’t do an absolute perfect job, but it was okay because I was not the main shooter. Together, Kristen and I managed to snap some amazing photographs that told the entire story of that special day. Hopefully, we will have more opportunities to photograph weddings in the near future. Kristen is SO fun to work with. I did and still can learn a lot from her and I’m excited for what is to come… what is to come on this journey to become a “professional” photographer.
Please let me know how you think I did… I obviously couldn’t post all my shots here (plus, some of the main moments are missing because they were shot by Kristen, but they can be found on her WEBSITE (NOTE: I’m not sure if you can see them yet because, as of now, they are only on her client’s page and you have to have the password). But, still check out her work because I think her photographs are absolutely gorgeous. And filled with emotion. I will gladly accept criticism… the negative and positive, but please make it constructive so I can learn!

The Bride and Groom’s First Dance as Husband and Wife (And My First Time Using a Flash). Polly Nance. 2012.
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PEACE, LOVE until my next bloggy-blog post, dear fellow blog readin’ friends! π
Wow, you have captured the happy moments perfectly! I was smiling all the way.. π
Loved the shades, and colors! Awesome.
Thank you! Glad you were smiling! Thanks so much for your comment π
Talk about being in the right place at the right time with the right people being present – that was an amazing opportunity you got to be a second shooter for this wedding!! You did a GREAT job! The photos all tell a beautiful story, I can almost feel as if I had actually been to the wedding! π I really do like them all, but my favorite, the one I keep going back to, is the detail shot of the bride fixing the groom’s boutonierre. I LOVE the look of it!!
Thanks so much Holly! It’s crazy how things turn out… I’m so glad you enjoyed the photos (took me long enough to post them! lol). I’m glad you are drawn to that detail shot… I actually shot a winder frame of it originally (with the bride and groom in frame) but i thought, ultimately, that it made for a better detail shot. Thanks so much for commenting! π
You did a great job. One thing I might mention is necks.
Thanks! Haha necks?!!! I’m not sure how to take that comment lol! I appreciate the quirky feedback nonetheless π
Polly, these are very beautiful! Great work, you’ve really got an eye for composition and these are terrific. Congrats!
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Thanks so much Karen! I appreciate it! It was a fun wedding to photograph π
Congratulations! What a great story. You took a chance, you trusted yourself, and it paid off with a lot of great pictures. π
Thank you! I appreciate the feedback π
Nice work. It’s so much more enjoyable being the second camera – I did wedding photography for 10 years and talk about stress…!
10 years?! Wowza! It was stressful but, yes, it was much less stressful being the second camera! I cannot imagine shooting weddings all by yourself. Why did you stop shooting weddings? The stess? Thanks so much for commenting π
I love to see the happiness of a bride and groom. Looks like a beautiful day and I love the abstrct shot of the bride – right up my alley!
Thank you! They were the happiest, cutest couple ever; a real joy to follow around and photograph. It was a lot of fun! I’m glad to hear you like that abstract shot… I meant for it to be in focus, but it turned out beautifully in bokeh-blurred form. Thanks so much for commenting! π
Polly, I want to send you an e-mail. Can you send me your address. Thanks.
Pollynance3@gmail.com π
All in all, I think you done a great job. Much, much better than I could have ever done. Congrats on your 1st shot at it. π
(P.S.) I would have commented earlier, but somehow I just now found this post. I thought I had subscribed, but I didn’t get it. I will re-subscribe. π
I’m not getting all the blog posts I subscribed to either. Strange! I’m glad you found my post in spite of not getting an email. Shooting weddings is more fun than I thought it would be! I really appreciate your feedback. Thank you for commenting π
Now I am waiting for that e-mail from you. π Did I miss it or have you not got to it yet. (Chuckle). I am looking forward to reading your post now.
I think you did a great job Polly. Loved the “Married and in love” shot. I also like your take on the colors in some of these shots. It shows that you are putting your own style in the photos. Nice.
Thank you! I’m glad you like my color choices. Wedding photography is still new to me and I’m trying to put my style in the photos whenever I can. Thanks so much for the feedback π
I have to agree with Spiderpaw… you did such a wonderful job. You definitely have your own take on wedding photography. And I love the photos you took when no one was looking. They were natural and beautiful. I can’t wait to feature this n my blog on Saturday π
Aww thank you so much! It’s so good to hear from you. I’m glad you found these photos worthy of being featured on your blog!! Seriously?! That makes my day! Thank you do much for the feedback and I look forward to your Saturday post! π
You did a wonderful job capturing the fun and joy of a very special day π
Thank you! I’m glad you enjoyed the photos. I greatly appreciate the feedback! π
Amazing start. All the best.
Thanks so much π and thank you for commenting!
Polly, these are terrific !!! You did a wonderful job of capturing the moments of a joyous occasion!!! Well done !!!
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I’d tell you which one was my favorite, but I love them all! I can’t choose! Really nicely done, Polly!
Have fun with your next wedding, tooβ I hear that second camera is a lot more fun than first camera, anyway. π
A wedding to be proud of and images that convey the real events of the day. It comes across as a real happy and family day
Thank you so much! π
You are very welcome